General Practices
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Etiquette
Unspoken Behavioral Guidelines of Fisting
Publication Details
Author: Finn Vortex
Published: 15 March 2018
Updated: 30 November 2020
Duration: 15 Minutes
Quick Links / Topics in this Article
General Practices | Hospitality & Location Etiquette | Position & Role Etiquette | Group & Event Etiquette
Executive Summary
List of basic guidelines and etiquette to follow when fisting. Breakout guidelines are included for specific locations, roles, and group scenes.
Hospitality & Location Etiquette
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Host Guidelines
These six guidelines cover your basic responsibilities as a host for a local fisting session between you and one or two playmates:
Etiquette Explained
Who: Host
When: Prior to Guest Arrival
What: House Rules
This guideline is universal for any type of play (fisting, fucking, etc.) at your house or hotel. Cover the basics prior to your guest arriving. Examples include drug tolerance, safety concerns, and neighbor/roommate considerations.
You can expand on additional rules after your guest has arrived; as long as you aren't over-burdensome with a list of persnickety items.
Should you have a lot of minor or trivial house rules, they should be identified and discussed during this 'pre-play' negotiation phase.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 1-1: Unexpected Surprises
Failure to identify basic rules prior to arrival can result in unexpected and potentially dangerous consequences.
Throughout the day, I had been texting with a potential playmate. We determined that a game of handball should be played very late in the evening.
The text messages proceeded:
16254 Glen Cove, 75227
See you around midnight!
Okay, leave the porch light off—I'm coming naked and ready to power fist!
LOL—Just come to the side porch door next to the garage.
Just after midnight, I knocked on the side porch door—naked as a jaybird. His jaw dropped in shock as he ushered me in: "I guess I should have said, wear clothes!"
"And I guess I should have said that 'I wasn't kidding about the nudity!'" I replied.
His unexpected surprise took a while to wear off and detrimentally affected half of our session. Clearer ground rules could have alleviated this issue.
— FF Chronicles: 42.06.0063
Etiquette Explained
Who: Host
When: Prior to Guest Arrival
What: Sanitary Play Space
Prior to your guest's arrival, clean up your play space and associated areas such as bathrooms, sinks, and showers. A few things can really break trust and kill the mood—hoarding and filth both come to mind. Remove clutter and sanitize whenever possible.
Note that some scenes, play spaces, and dungeons are grungy by design. If your play space is a grunge pen/pit, let your guest know in advance so he can decline if it's outside his comfort zone.
If you are hosting in a hotel room, organize and put away your things to the extent allowed. This will also ensure your guest doesn't inadvertently take something that is not his.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 1-2: Clutter or Hoard?
An unsanitary or hoarded environment indicates substantial health issues which affects the ebb and flow of the session.
"I apologize for the mess, I've been re-organizing the house and haven't got it put all back together yet," he said as he greeted me at the door. He continued, "Just tilt the mattresses to the side to get around them, like this." He demonstrated how to crawl through the hall into the kitchen where there was visible floor space. I could tell by the dust and disarray that this re-organization was more than a weekend-long project.
At that moment, I should have cancelled. He now had two strikes against him: the filthy home and fifteen year old pics that didn't match his current look. Yet, I didn't want to hurt feelings nor appear ageist or disrespectful, so I gave him a pass.
"By the way, David is not in the mood play today, so it is just you and me. Let me find the gloves, and then we'll get started." From the other side of the house, he yelled: "You can put your stuff wherever you can find a space. Buster and Clarence shed now that it's summer, but I cleaned up so your things should stay relatively hair-free."
Three more strikes: pet hair, bait-and-switch, and gloves. Gloves, in this circumstance, put me a little at ease. Perhaps it really wasn't a strike today due to the nature of the play space.
The session lasted ten minutes. His paw was shaky which resulted in inadvertently tortuous entrance method. He also touched almost everything in sight to stabilize himself as we played.
"I'm sorry John, something is up with my hole today. It's not going to open so I'm going to call it quits." I dressed, crawled over the mattresses, and departed, swearing never again to play in a hoarded home.
— FF Chronicles: 43.08.0072
Note: Hoarding is a mental disorder (DSM-5: 300.5) that is often coupled with obsessive/compulsive tendencies. Sufferers are often unaware of the reality that surrounds them and may not be able to distinguish truth from non-truth. Use empathy, sincerity, and honesty in your conversation should you encounter a fister that is dealing with this issue. It is probably a wise idea to refrain from fisting engagements with individuals who are not seeking treatment for their disorder.
Etiquette Explained
Who: Host
When: Upon Guest Arrival
What: Hand Washing
Your guest has touched a thousand things since he started his journey to your place. Avoid spreading contaminants by allowing him to wash up with soap and/or hand sanitizer.
During group play, a top may shuffle between bottoms. This increases the spread of STIs, specifically Hepatitis C. Providing de-lubing agents such as salt, Dawn, or loofas at your sink can reduce transmission.
Many public venues or bars that allow sexual activity lack proper hand washing facilities. Carry hand sanitizer with you for you and your playmates to use prior to penetration.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 1-3: Decreasing Germs
Humans touch hundreds of unclean surfaces daily. A simple hand wash removes most germs and decreases contamination of the hole.
My phone beeped with a message giving the all clear.
I'm out of the shower. Head on over!
OMW. See you shortly.
You want me blindfolded, ass up, lubed, and ready to go?
HOT! Fuck Yes!!!!!.
Just tell me where the sink is so I can wash up prior to wrecking your hole.
First door to the left. See you soon!
I grabbed my gear bag and car keys, locked the door and headed out. The neighbor stopped me in the corridor. Her dog, Jezabel, jumped up on me and begged to be petted. I scratched her ears, hugged the neighbor, and headed to the parking garage. The door handle to the garage was sticky. 'Yuck! This is nasty.' I said to myself as I grabbed the handle.
The rest of the drive was uneventful. I didn't touch much: the door handle, the gear shift, the mirror, the steering wheel, the blinker, the window controls, the seat belt, and the navigation controls.
The first door to the left was a coat closet; however, the first to the right was a sink. My hand washing gave him time to position his hole for immediate entry. Fisted the living hell out of his hole.
— FF Chronicles: 43.08.0072
Etiquette Explained
Who: Host
When: Duration of Stay
What: Touch-up Facilities
Your guest may be coming from a long distance, work, or other engagements. If so, he may need a shower to clean out before the session starts, touch-up during the session, and clean up afterwards.
Full clean-outs for most play dates are rare and usually unexpected unless discussed by both parties in advance. Touch-ups may be necessary on occasion, and it is generally assumed the host will provide a shower and towel under those circumstances.
Ideally, your guest should provide his own douche or douche nozzle if you have a shower shot. Otherwise, rubbing alcohol can be used to sterilize your nozzle before and after use.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 1-4: Touch-Ups
Touch-ups and post play clean-up is easier with a shower and shower shot.
Just below the elbow, he reported some 'texture' and requested a touch-up before going deeper. I slipped off my harness and fisting jock and asked for the facilities.
Instead of directions, he handed me my clothes and car keys and said he would be here waiting for my return. The drive home was fifteen minutes, and the touch-up was three minutes to eliminate a minuscule amount of remnant. Had I not left my harness and jock at his place, I would not have returned. We fisted for three more hours into the night. While his technique and hole were both great, his lack of common etiquette decreased the overall pleasure of the experience.
— FF Chronicles: 46.01.NNNN
Etiquette Explained
Who: Host
When: Throughout Session
What: Provisions
What you provide as a host is often based on where you are hosting. At your own home, it is generally your responsibility to provide a majority of the supplies needed for fisting. If you are in a hotel, away from your home on business or recreation, the provisional responsibilities shift.
At a minimum, you should be prepared to provide clean towels. Discuss with guests any other supplies you are providing so they can supplement if necessary.
For specific guidelines, refer to this Provisions Matrix.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 1-5: Supply Cabinet
A supply cupboard or cabinet helps keep your supplies neat and readily accessible for your next session.
Before leaving for his place, I decided to check to see if I needed to bring anything. It quickly became evident that he didn't know much the 'production' of a session.
So, just to make sure, you don't need me to bring anything, at all?
Nope, got it covered!
Do you have poppers?
What kind of lube do you have?
Swiss Navy siicone. And my poppers are about nine months old. Bring some if you have fresher.
With just those three questions, I knew he wasn't prepared for advanced fisting. I transfered my lube and poppers to the overnight bag, knowing it was full of all sorts of fisting accoutrements and supplies.
When I opened the bag and pulled out poppers, pads, paper towels, toys, douche nozzles, lube, rags, and cough drops, he asked if I was here to perform a surgery. After the session, he mentioned that he severely underestimated the kind and quantity of supplies needed for a session.
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Host
When: Throughout Session
What: Hydration
Douching, poppers, and lube all cause dehydration. Keep your playmates in the mood by keeping them hydrated.
Water or sports drinks are ideal. Since alcohol is a diuretic, extra water must be provided to counteract the dehydrating effects of alcohol on the body.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 1-6: Restoration of Electrolytes
Sports drinks restore electrolyes lost from douching and fasting.
His delightful German hands and hole kept me entertained for hours<—>six to be exact. Even though I had drank plenty of water prior to meeting, the play was so intense that staying hydrated had slipped my mind. Following my last go in the sling, I stood up and nearly fainted.
"I think you need some more water. Drink this. He handed me a bottle from the mini-fridge.
"Thanks, I needed that before I head back home." We chatted back and forth as I collapsed the sling and hauled my gear out to the vehicle. "You'll be back soon?"
"Yes!" he replied. "I can't wait to play with you again."
"Me too." I said as I drove off. Just around the corner, I stopped at a convenience store and bought 64 ounces (4 liters) of sports drink. I immediately guzzed three and had the fourth nearly finished by the time I got home.
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Guest Guidelines
Having arrived at your host's play space, follow these guidelines to facilitate a successful session:
Follow House RulesYour host has been kind enough to invite you into his home and play spaces. Don't take advantage of his hospitality or you'll never come back. It's also a good idea to only enter into invited areas.
Clean Play Space After SessionBeing a slob is just plain inconsiderate. It's a good idea to leave the play space cleaner than before you started. At party venues, you usually agree to this requirement in order to be admitted.
Ask Permission To Use Playroom AccoutrementsEven though you may be okay with sharing, your host may not be. Sharing insertables such as douches, toys, and lube can spread STIs. Your host may not be comfortable doing so. It's also of incredibly poor taste to ask the host to provide poppers, pot, or party favors.
Don't Use Mind/Body Altering Substances Without PermissionUsually poppers are okay, but it doesn't hurt to ask when setting up a session. Follow the house rules on all other drugs. Be honest about using—your host may not be tolerant of such substances or may be in recovery and would prefer to steer clear of situations that might cause relapse.
Wash Your Hands After ArrivingIt's always hot to make out at the door, but seriously... wash your hands before playing handball. Your steering wheel, your pet, the metro handrail, and the door knob are all great sources of contamination.
Bring Your Own Play/Overnight BagGranted, your host should provide the essentials such as clean towels and play pads, but they may not. Additionally, you need a place to carry your lube, poppers, douche/douche nozzles and other gear.
Leave When AskedDon't overstay your welcome. Call it quits if there isn't a connection. If invited to leave, do so without making a fuss.
Etiquette Explained
Who: Guest
When: Throughout Session
What: House Rules
A host has the responsibility to relay major House Rules prior to your arrival. This process can be formal, informal, or a combination of both. Respect those rules that are clearly identified and follow his lead for those that are assumed common decency standards, such as respecting property, respecting neighbors, and smoking outside.
Examples of major rules include, no drugs, no theivery, maintain appropriate noise levels, and parking considerations. Minor rules might include glass in the playroom or shoe usage in the house.
Remember that house rules are only a subset of expected behaviors for a session. Following them as well as unspoken general fisting etiquette helps ensure a better session.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 2-1: Moses delivers the house rules.
Unlike Moses and the Israelites, house rules my not be formally delivered.
There weren't many rules established for the party: come sober, stay sober, and do not leave the suite partially naked or in fetish gear. Jim seemed to miss the memo.
He fidgeted upon arrival, which could have initially been interpreted as nerves. Later, it was evident that it was something more, especially after he disappearred in the bathroom for several minutes with his limited gear bag. His behavior indicated that he was high on meth, and as a result, he was invited to leave.
He pulled on his jeans and stormed out of the suite high and in a harness. The hotel staff permanently banned the host from renting a suite at the facility again.
— FF Chronicles: YY.MM.NNNN
Etiquette Explained
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What: [ Summary (Noun Phrase]
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Etiquette Explained
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Etiquette Explained
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Etiquette Explained
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What: [ Summary (Noun Phrase]
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Etiquette Explained
Who: [ Person/Role ]
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What: [ Summary (Noun Phrase]
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Role/Position Etiquette
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Group and Event Etiquette
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Role/Position Etiquette
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Test for STIs in AdvanceTest about two weeks prior to an event to allow for diagnosis and treatment if necessary. After testing, play safer to guarantee no change is status prior to the event.
Do Not Interrupt a SessionIf somebody is playing and in the zone, steer clear. Allow the Top(s) or Bottom(s) to bask in the moment.
Ask to Join or to Watch Up CloseIf somebody is in a semi-private place at a group event and you want in on the action, ask both players if it's okay to join. If you are the players, don't take offense—especially since you are playing in an open area (even if it is semi-private).
Keep Sidebar Conversations to the SideIf you are an audience member or a secondary participant, avoid talking about last week's Sunday School lesson, Aunt Helen's lemon bar recipe, who really deserved the Oscar, or the bad comb-over on the guy who just walked by.
Group, Party, and Event Etiquette
A wise man once said, "While two is a crowd, and three is company, four and five are nine."
As the number of participants increases, additional etiquette guidelines are necessary to create and maintain the energy of play. While a threesome follows the same etiquette guidelines as a one-on-one encounter, anything larger involves additional guidelines and protocols. Furthermore, the etiquette of private parties differs slightly from fisting events.
Group Guidelines
In addition to the etiquette guidelines for your role or location, follow these guidelines during group fisting encounter:
Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: Prior to Session
What: Preparedness
Don't be the douchebag that spreads an infection amoung attendees. Test about two weeks prior to an event to allow for diagnosis and treatment if necessary. After testing, play safer to guarantee no change is status prior to the event.
Health departments typically ask that you refrain from sex after an STI diagnosis for at least seven days. This ensures you don't infect partners that may re-infect you. If you know you might be a carrier, or if you are in the abstinence period, skip the event.
Anecdotal Narrative
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: Duration of Party
What: Follow Rules
When you are invited to a private party, the general expectation is that you play with as many guests as reasonable and avoid qlique-fisting.
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: Duration of Party
What: Follow Rules
When you are invited to a private party, the general expectation is that you play with as many guests as reasonable and avoid qlique-fisting.
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: Duration of Party
What: Follow Rules
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: Duration of Party
What: Mellow Out
In group settings, various psychological factors exist that modify individual behavior. These factors can alter the dynamic of the group in positive and negative ways. Factors that tend to include peer pressure, mob mentality, and performance adrenaline.
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Etiquette Explained
Who: [ Person/Role ]
When: [ Implemented Period ]
What: [ Summary (Noun Phrase]
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Party Guidelines
p>In addition to the etiquette guidelines for one-on-one encounters and groups, follow these guidelines while attending fisting parties:Etiquette Explained
Who: All Attendees
When: Upon Arrival
What: Supplement Provisions
Don't be the douchebag that spreads an infection amoung attendees. Test about two weeks prior to an event to allow for diagnosis and treatment if necessary. After testing, play safer to guarantee no change is status prior to the event.
Health departments typically ask that you refrain from sex after an STI diagnosis for at least seven days. This ensures you don't infect partners that may re-infect you. If you know you might be a carrier, or if you are in the abstinence period, skip the event.
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: Duration of Party
What: Follow Rules
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: 7-10 Days Prior
What: Screen for STIs
Don't be the douchebag that spreads an infection amoung attendees. Test about two weeks prior to an event to allow for diagnosis and treatment if necessary. After testing, play safer to guarantee no change is status prior to the event.
Health departments typically ask that you refrain from sex after an STI diagnosis for at least seven days. This ensures you don't infect partners that may re-infect you. If you know you might be a carrier, or if you are in the abstinence period, skip the event.
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Etiquette Explained
Who: All attendees
When: Upon Diagnosis
What: Prevent Recontamination
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Event Guidelines
In addition to the guidelines for groups and parties, these guidelines apply when attending a fisting event:
Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: 7-10 Days Prior
What: Screen for STIs
Don't be the douchebag that spreads an infection amoung attendees. Test about two weeks prior to an event to allow for diagnosis and treatment if necessary. After testing, play safer to guarantee no change is status prior to the event.
Health departments typically ask that you refrain from sex after an STI diagnosis for at least seven days. This ensures you don't infect partners that may re-infect you. If you know you might be a carrier, or if you are in the abstinence period, skip the event.
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Etiquette Explained
Who: Attendee
When: Duration of Party
What: Follow Rules
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Etiquette Explained
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